You are in limbo because you are not in control. You need someone to tell you what to do. You can be that person, too. You are a poor soul, and not more. You wait. You have no lust for life. You let inertia take over…but for how long?
For me, being in limbo is easier each time. I know myself now. I know when I am hurting. I know how to take care of myself.